HoolsMar 28, 20205 minSolo-Poly Social DistancingI don't know if this is a known thing about me, a general Hools tidbit. Though I suppose I wouldn't know what would be considered 'genera...
HoolsMar 13, 20204 minDating fatigueThere's something really difficult about meeting new people. I've probably met some of my closest friends in just the last year. I've bee...
HoolsFeb 21, 20203 minA letter for someone who probably doesn't existI've finally started feeling like a human again, with human emotions, which is a change from the last... god knows how long. I may have c...
HoolsFeb 3, 20205 minOnline DatingThere are many apps out there for the sort. Tinder. Bumble. Hinge. Coffee Bagel something. The one where if you walk by someone your phon...
HoolsJan 10, 20203 minPoly on the RadarOh the groans of society imbedded beliefs when the topic of polyamory is breached. Here's a little anecdote. I recently mentioned to a co...
HoolsDec 23, 20195 minConversations with me as I try to dateDating isn't easy. I avoided it for almost 27 years. It was a nice 27 years of living in isolation, and avoidance did me well. Though now...
HoolsDec 1, 20194 minThe Fear of OthersI don't experience jealousy. Honestly, these photo's have nothing to do with the post and I'm too lazy to find a fit. It's very odd to me...
HoolsNov 9, 20195 minAnger bubbles seize to simmerI have a problem. I hate monogamy. Alright, so hate is a strong word. And it's not some much the concept of monogamy. It's the culture. A...
HoolsOct 17, 20195 minI need a resetI feel so very empty. I've spent my life filling everyone else's buckets and I don't even think I'm doing a good job of it. I feel like e...
HoolsOct 7, 20195 minOpening the doorI've been lucky in love, recently. A friend of mine asked me the other day: 'But how do you find these partners who are open? How does th...
HoolsOct 2, 20195 minHello, Hi, Please Give Me Attention Or I'll Break. Thanks.I've spent way too long being single that I really don't know how to be in a relationship. Not to mention dating multiple people. I think...
HoolsSep 21, 20193 minI Do - Not Feel Like My Existence Can ExistWeddings stress me out for many reasons. Today has it's own special circumstances. Any weddings I have been to/been invited to have alway...
HoolsSep 21, 20194 minThe Truth is You Never Know the TruthI'm constantly learning every day. What's that saying... I'm shocked at how much there is in the world. I am surprised constantly. And pe...
HoolsSep 19, 20195 minThe Varying Vessels of LoveI'm obsessed with the different way my heart feels. I find the heart so fascinating. For the longest time I couldn't understand why I was...